And once you have reached this dead end you have to adopt another attitude towards other people...never to judge , because believe me if you are spending your lifetime between worrying about how people look at you and on the other hand judging them through their deeds then simply you have vainly wasted your life , look deep into your flaws _ and believe me there are many _ seek their management and heal them and when you are done _ which you will never be _ start to look to other people around you but before that stay dedicated to your own project filling the blanks of your soul and behavior .
" But won't that interfere with my human need to communicate with the others ? won't it hinder our usual interpretations with our friends , family or even work buddies ? " . Well when I say do not judge people I do not mean to isolate yourself away from them , what I really mean is that instead of fishing their tics it's more beneficial and more reasonable to understand their circumstances and obligations and believe me when you do so many exclamation marks you once had about their ways in life will simply disappear , and at this point and this point only you can judge , direct and help them because now you know what is beneath their deeds , what is hidden behind a strange behavior , you have revealed the motivation.
These lines are really valuable not because I wrote them , No , it's because it took me so long to reach and conclude them and in my way I had my share in suffering and paying the bill obligatory for getting any life experience , and when I started to apply them I found how simply you can change people around you , because at the end everyone's problem including the writer is to find someone who truly listens and provides unconditioned help and love...something if you once met in life please do not let it go foolishly.
c u
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Ya Allah !
The same exact post I was gonna publish next ..
except mine was in Arabic ..
It's true :
great minds think alike
:P
Lovely words
انا مش عارف اقول ايه بالضبط بس عليا النعمة الراجل ده بيقول كلام زي الفل
coooooooooooooooooooooool post
شكلك انت وخبيب واحد مسكوا
وعملكوا فيها فرويد واقعد يحلل في شخصيتكم لما طلع منكم القطط الفاطسة
:)
That is really confusing
i cant really judge your writing
is it brilliant or bull cuz it cant be anything in between
sorry rocky if i let you down
hero
ولا أنا والله
ههههه
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hosam basha
enta elly cooooool
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xezo
هههههه
لأ هوه الصراحة مطلعشى قطط هوه طلع بعيد عنك أفيال بس فاطسة برضه
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dark skies
well you do not have to apologize coz u never didn't let me down
:P
see that's exactly what is this post about , I do like u being in love with my writings but if u are not "who cares!!"
to me it's brilliant coz i simply felt it then wrote it
وعلى فكرة لسه عقد الاحتراف على مكتبى فكر و قولى
مرور كريم
;)
خبيب باشا
بس كتابتك أحلى و كلماتك أروع
ترجع بالسلامة ان شاء الله
مرور كريم
wait wait !
ok but also i want meet u..
let me catch u little in any coffe pls
It's my pleasure samt as long as u r the one paying the bill lol jk
call me on my cell at any time
0103553580
cu
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